No Lie No Good

Lie vs Good ?

When you realize that you lie about something. even how small it is. It trasform into a small black dust in your heart. You feel it convenient, comfortable, for you. Or maybe that is the right thing for you, or for other people. Lies are never good. How good it sounds like. How comforting. How luring. How goodness could come out of something bad. Started as good, white, is hard, yet deserved to be valued. If you are in that someone’s position, imagine how hurt it is to be betrayed. Maybe it is a small thing, an unimportant trivia thing. yet, you dont how it meant for other people. Imagine you being the one you lied to.

What is Lies

Lies are plural of lie. One small little lie will lead to another lies to support the original lie. Lying means saying or doing something that is not the exact real fact with the exact amount of uality and quantity, also the impression it made. Adding, reducing, changing, the content from small amount to complete new ideas, are considered as lies. We are all lying. To ourselves, to people, to our social media page, etc. Because we thought, who wants the truth anyway. Who wants to hear bad news or our sad experience post on social media, who wants to look bad. Everyone want to be perceived as this good, kind, loving, cool, popular, kind of person. That is a lie. Even more, we started believing our lies, and it became our new facts.

What if Good Comes out of it

Nothing comes out good from bad thing. Well, maybe the lies is not that bad. Who knows best? you? You think you know what’s best for others? While you usually don’t know what’s best for you? And who are you to control people’s judgement and deciding things for them. Playing around with people’s feeling. maybe you dont meant to that extend. But, it all has a start. And nobody to blame. The logic is, lies tend to be used for something not really wise. To cover a mistake, for example, while human is the place of mistakes, how could you be a perfect person with no mistakes? that’s just impossible, then to cover it up, you make another mistake, by lying. How do you kow someone really accept you for who you are if you kept on showing lies to them. Their feeling and knowledge about you would be blurred as well. It doesnt mean that you should show as reckless as you want. But, don’t worry too much about mistakes. It is normal. People don’t really comfortable in their own skin. It is how you appear in the best version of you, and if you slipped a little, that is fine there’s always room for improvement.