Is it OK to Follow Your Guts?

Is it

People may lie. People may betray. People get bored. People can do anything harmful to us. But, there lies a tiny light called trust. We could trust someone. Believe in their words. Proved by their actions. We could give people chance and opportunity. We could make ammend and promise someone else. We may have distrust, dishonesty, to anybody. We could hurt someone else. But there also left a tiny hope, called guts. Despite uncertainties in life, we tend to rely on this small hunch feeling, that sometimes we put our trust on making decision.

In some occassion, there is a glinch of awareness that emerged. Whether it is a guidance, a direction, a clue, or a convincing feeling  on something we have doubt before. In making decision, the more likely we have things in our mind, the more difficult we try to take and sure about the decision we make. In another case, we may not even know why we are so sure about it. We don’t need any prove from someone else, for them to prove their words, or just to make us believe. We just, believe. Is it dangerous? Just being like that?

Danger in its own term, means may harm you in physical, and or mental/physchological. Anything that have possible threat, maybe dangerous. Even if we are not doing anything harmful, the possibility is still there. Your area might be infected by some virus all of a sudden. Or we might got into an accident. Everything could be dangerous, even only by a piece of paper and pen. So what’s the big deal? Putting trust in someone, is not that bad anyway. Eventhough apparently, we are biased, they did something bad toward us, betrayed our trust, so what? Leave them, or forgive. No one is perfect. The choice is now yours to make, give them more chance, or just leave. You are still left being a good person, once who believed and give the trust.

Blunt Trust

Ofcourse not everything can be easily believed just like that. We have our own mind and logical reasoning to decide and make judgement about something or someone. If it is too absurd or illogical, of course we don’t buy it. But in what level is blunt trust should be tolerated? There is no exact standard about this. Let’s say, image and appearance may deceive us. Or sweet-talks and promises may be misinterpreted. That’s when we need our mind, physical judgement, and guts.

Follow Your Gut Feeling

It doesnt necessarily saying that you have to follow or accept everything on the table. Again, using mind, proofs, and empirical facts, I believed we could judge better. After that, there may be things that is still doubtful, or we are afraid of taking the responsibility of choosing or making decision. It is fine. If it is a wrong decision, so what? Get up, move up, go forward. Forgive or leave. Both are Okay. we are collection of memories, experiences, and acts. It is alright to fall. It is alright to make mistakes. The more matter is, after that, are you gonna get up? Or curse and blame. Ad if it turns out to be a good thing, continue on. enjoy the goodness of owning up your life.